Ian Ironwood posted the below which I have excerpted from his excellent blog;
http://thesexnerd.blogspot.com/2012/01/ian-could-you-go-over-that-thing-about.html
"Here's the question, in response to a dude "manning up" and taking the porn filters off of the computer, apparently placed there at an earlier date by his wife who objected to him watching:"
"Have you figured out why your wife just might object to the porn being readily available? "
"Men do know why a woman would be unhappy with porn: it provides an alternate sexual outlet to her, and reduces her ability to control the sex life within the relationship. With the "competition" from imaginary women, a woman has higher sexual expectations to live up to, a more knowledgeable partner who may desire things outside of her comfort zone, and a medium through which to express his sexuality without her permission."
"Further, you have to understand that to most men, porn is an important expression of their sexuality. Through porn they can maintain a sense of control of their own sexuality, and they can indulge in cultivating sexual variety and developing a fantasy life without straying from their relationship. To most men, porn serves the same function that romance novels, soap operas and "supernatural thrillers" serve for women. "
I agree. :) Now...to get the balls to follow this advice...
http://thesexnerd.blogspot.com/p/how-to-talk-to-your-girlfriend-or-wife.html
And not be a Beta as described in this...
http://thesexnerd.blogspot.com/2011/11/blue-pill-or-red-pill-two-approaches-to.html
http://thesexnerd.blogspot.com/2012/01/ian-could-you-go-over-that-thing-about.html
"Here's the question, in response to a dude "manning up" and taking the porn filters off of the computer, apparently placed there at an earlier date by his wife who objected to him watching:"
"Have you figured out why your wife just might object to the porn being readily available? "
"Men do know why a woman would be unhappy with porn: it provides an alternate sexual outlet to her, and reduces her ability to control the sex life within the relationship. With the "competition" from imaginary women, a woman has higher sexual expectations to live up to, a more knowledgeable partner who may desire things outside of her comfort zone, and a medium through which to express his sexuality without her permission."
"Further, you have to understand that to most men, porn is an important expression of their sexuality. Through porn they can maintain a sense of control of their own sexuality, and they can indulge in cultivating sexual variety and developing a fantasy life without straying from their relationship. To most men, porn serves the same function that romance novels, soap operas and "supernatural thrillers" serve for women. "
I agree. :) Now...to get the balls to follow this advice...
http://thesexnerd.blogspot.com/p/how-to-talk-to-your-girlfriend-or-wife.html
And not be a Beta as described in this...
http://thesexnerd.blogspot.com/2011/11/blue-pill-or-red-pill-two-approaches-to.html
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